Lisa C Writes

Reading...  Sex At Dawn . Taking my time, making my way through this one. Sex & Pearls, how appropriate? They do go hand and hand, wouldn't you say? The pearls made it easy to digest, I guess. Sex At Dawn - have you read it? "How we mate, why we stray, and what it means for modern relationships.  Here's some of the things you'll read about on the inside:   W hy long-term fidelity can be so difficult for so many.  Why sexual passion tends to fade even as love deepens.  W hy many middle-aged men risk everything for an affair.  W hy homosexuality persists in the face of standard evolutionary logic.  W hat the human body reveals about the prehistoric origins of modern sexuality."    I'm looking forward to it. If you've read it please share your feelings on this work and what, if anything, did you learn from it.     // Feeling...  happiness. In this moment I'm grateful for the happiness that I...

Wild. Excited. Expressive. Fluid. Sexual. Full. Open. Exhale. Smile. Laugh out loud. Flowing. On fire. Beloved. Moist. Engaging. Powerful. Within myself. Free. Woman. Beautiful. Glowing. Magic. Whole. Accepting. Bold. Wise. Feeling deeply. Dark. Light.  Words that express my feelings that night as he took pictures of me under the moonlight. I was full of myself. Fully expressive of myself. Whole within myself. Joyful, playful as Goddess Bast led me to be. These moments keep me alive and well, happy and enjoying myself. Loving my life and sharing that love with others.  I dance my life for myself. I am whole. I am complete. I say what I mean and I mean what I say. I dance the dark and the light, the conscious and the unconscious, the sane and the insane, and I speak from myself authentically, with total conviction, without regard for how I might look. All the parts of myself flow into the whole, all my divergent selves unite as one. I listen...

*I began writing this blog entry months ago. My fear stopped me from completing it. I now had the courage to complete and release it. I hope it brings you closure like it did for me. I hope it inspires you to live more freely. I told him, I allowed the world to make me hard. After I said those words I felt a bit of elevation in my spirit. Not enough to feel completely better but just enough to feel better in the moment. He allowed me to speak while he did nothing but listen. I needed this.  My words flowed like running water. He became a bucket for me to pour them into. He contained all of me. His listening ear became my refuge. I felt safe to continue.  I told him that I was struggling with being open with people like I want to be. I told him that I feel a burning within me to share but my reasons not to take over. I told him that I felt shame around this. I thought that I was better than this. I thought that I had overcome this some time ago. He ...

When these pictures were taken I had already been touched by his love. I clung tightly to his scent through the shirt he wore the night before. Scent that left me moaning for more. My Love's love lingered within the fabric reminding me of joy once felt. Joy that I will be sure to see again. In his arms, in his love, he embraces all of me. When I express pleasure for my love through words and sensual photos I always get asked how do I make love last. How does love always find it's home within me. How does it feel so good these many years later?  My reply, love lives within me. Love flows from the well deep within. I make room for love. Self-love. Love always has a place here. Love is me. By the time you see my pleasure expressed outwardly in a sensual way I've already indulged in my own pleasures.  Cuddles that linger long after he's gone leave me full and wanting for more. When he returns I'm open and ready to receive the love that he desires ...

B ack in 2004 after I had my fourth baby my husband bought us a really nice camera and began snapping away. That's when life changed for us. He has always had a love of photography and as a child use to enjoy watching his Grandfather take pictures.   He bought lighting, and backdrops, and invested time learning photography. He stocked up on film and batteries, and brushed up on his photo editing skills. Things got serious. Prior to this  we had just b een taking pictures, just shooting casually. But in 2004 we kicked it up a notch.  We began doing our own photoshoots and Lisa C the model was (re)born. To date, we have taken over 20,000 pictures and counting. During that time however, something else was taking place within me that I wasn't prepared for, something that would rock my world. I had hit an all time high in weight gain and I was usually unhappy about it. 

Soft, warm and melting in your arms…from the way you Love me ~ Sweet embrace, kisses that melt down my cheeks…I enjoy tasting your Love ~ More of you on my lips, tingling sensations on my tongue…your sweetness is so Divine. The Gift of Me,  Lisa R Charles I’m often asked, “How is it possible that you can stay turned on to life, fully, each and everyday? Especially, being a mother to many, with open arms helping others to succeed in life, love and marriage. "How do you do it?” My answer is not a simple one but it's not that complicated either. In short, I’ve learned to appreciate the beauty in all things, all people and, in every experience that I have (attract) in my life. It's not always easy but I do my best. In my journey of motherhood I’ve learned to appreciate that my children are a gift - a gift that keeps on giving. Even the during difficult times they are still a gift. Each day I have the privilege to be in their presence and experience wha...

"As quite as a whisper, in the distance I feel you coming near. I can hear you through the beat of my heart, as you become more and more clear. As the sound begins to rumble and build within my being, I open myself up and begin to receive. Receive true, deep, long lasting, expanded orgasm."   ~Lisa R Charles Sorry to keep you waiting….As promised here’s part - 2 on what we experienced at the Tantric Sex event that I blogged about here .   During the event JuJuMama helped the female participants learn how to open up to experiencing Orgasm. She shared with us what she calls the five stages to Orgasm which she believes any woman can successfully achieve.   I will share with you each stage and then I will expound on it to give you a clearer, more vivid visualization on how to progress one step at a time. My King and I have been practicing Tantra for the past 4 years and I can honestly say that we have a much more fulfilling intimate relationship because of ...

We finally went to our first Tantric Sex event. It was by far the best non-touch sexual experience I’ve ever had...in a room full of other people. Do you remember just a little while ago I met a beautiful woman, blogger and author by the name of Kenya K. Stevens – aka JuJuMaMa ? Well last night she, Carl (her husband) and a few others hosted the Organic Bliss Tantra event at Your Day Spa located in Roswell, Georgia. David and I had the pleasure to attend. We  enjoyed ourselves so much that we are convinced we will be hosting our very own tantric sex event in the very, very near future. From the moment we got there we were already on a high from our own excitement. Sexual energy was oozing out of us. We immediately spotted Kenya and greeted her with hugs, kisses and smiles, just like I pictured. Next, we got the pleasure of meeting her wonderful and wise husband who was much taller than I expected. Definitely didn't take anything away from my expectations. We...

I came across a very intriguing piece written by Yvonne K. Fulbright on the FoxNews website the other day, and just had to share it with you! Some of these "hazards" of sex are pretty amusing, some made me say hmmm, while there were a couple that I could definitely relate to. Do you have any special cures or precautions for hazardous sexual activity? The Hazards of Too Much Sex You can never have too much of a good thing, right? I used to think that when it came to sex. What harm is there in luxuriating in a lot of loving? Then I learned that an overly zealous sexfest can indeed have you walking more than a little funny. Fascinated, I looked into the matter, only to find that too much sex in a short period of time can do a lot more than bench you for a couple of days. It can, in fact, put you out of commission for a while if you’re not smart about your sex play. So how can you avoid injury when caught up in a bout of excessive sexual desire? First, l...