Lisa C Writes

This myth has been the bane of my existence for many years. It has held me hostage and crying for mercy many sleepless nights. It has sent me running away in fear to belting out in intoxicating angry lashes at myself, and others. It has caused me to see red and attack others for no reason other than to cause pain. I screamed at the top of my lungs and I cried like a little baby. I was in turmoil over this and didn't know how to stop it.  My dilemma? The title says it all! I wanted to be a "good" girl so bad. I wanted to make others proud of me and give them what I thought they wanted from me. I wanted to be what others wanted me to be because I wanted to be considered that "good" girl.  Trying to please others and do things the "right" way drove me crazy. I was never going to be good enough, and they were never going to be satisfied. What I didn't realize was that it was never about me. I couldn't measure up or be good enough to

Hi Friends!! Before I share this Fabulous Find with you I want to take a moment to say thank you! Thank you to all of my readers, new and good 'ole faithfuls, who continue to support Lisa C Writes . You are true gems!! When I'm not posting blog articles you can find me on social networks such as; Twitter , Facebook , Google+ , Instagram (Lisa R Charles), LinkedIn , Pinterest , and Yelp . If you are on any of those networks and we are not already connected, let's connect and stay in touch.  Also, David and I have started a Twitter account together called,   @The26thAffair , which is a peek inside the story of our journey together. Check us out! Today's Fabulous Find comes from a post that was shared on Facebook a few weeks ago. After following the link to the website, and checking it out in it's entirety, I've decided that it is a must have for us. It's called The Tantra Chair, what you see in the picture below. Now, I can describe w

I attract a lot of knuckle heads! There I said it. Let me take a deep breath before I continue. Okay, I may need to OM before I move on. I'm ready. Lately, I feel like I've been attracting people who are a bit challenging to deal with. So i ask myself why? Why am I attracting such less than desirable people in my life? What am I missing? I feel like I'm missing something because I can't seem to shake them. Shake them as in, go away...PUHLEASE! Really that's the polite way of putting it. Y'all know what I really want to say, because we all been there. Dealing with people and we can't figure out why the heck they are in our lives! I'm usually an easy going, easy to get along with kinda chic. I have my days, I'm not even going to lie. I'm not always that peachy, sweet, and rosy but for the most part I feel that I am. So why is it that I keep attracting these personalities into my precious space. After a little digging, soul s

~ the pleasure i find in celebrating myself leaves me speechless.  a woman capable of expressing her sensuality, FEARLESSLY, is a free woman. take time to seek and find such women and be blessed by their presence abundantly ~ ~ Sensuali