How To Love Your Man...

Do you remember what it was like to hold hands while gazing in your Mans eyes? Do you remember what it was like when you could just talk for hours giggling with each other about the silliest things? Do you remember getting butterflies when he would touch you, whisper "he loves you", do you remember? If it's been awhile since you've experienced those things and more than maybe it's time for you to take the lead and go get what you want.

We as Mommies/Women tend to become so busy with the house and children that we neglect one of the most important parts in our happiness which is our relations with our Man. You know the one who was there before the house and children and if it happened to be the other way around (house and children first) you still get my point. Our Men very often feel left out when we become too busy with other "things" making them more important to handle than handling him.
Handling him with love, care, and tenderness. The way we handled him in the beginning, we forget they still need that from us. I can understand that at times we don't even know that we are putting him and our relations on the back burner, it's not intentional I know, but we need to be aware of what it's doing to them and us. If you care then stop, slow down and listen. Our Men need us, ladies, and if you don't believe that then your kidding your way right out of your relationship.

Here's where you can start, tonight after you put your child(ren) to sleep do something different, out of the ordinary and surprise your Man. Give him a back rub, a head rub, while you're doing that whisper in his ears how much you apprciate, how much you need him and are happy to be his wife. If your Man likes them, set a bath for him bring him something to read or listen too. Whatever will help him to relax and take his mind off of any cares and worries he may have. If he wants you to get in with him, then do that. Make it his night and get creative. He'll appreciate the attention that you're giving him, knowing that you have had a long day yourself and that you might want to be doing something else, like catching up on some much needed zzzzzzz. Love on him like you'll never see him again, I mean it. Like this will be your last opportunity to show your Man what giving him your full and undivided attention feels like.

In the morning get up put on your cape and begin again. You are a superwoman, raising your kids well, managing your house, your business, being the career woman that you are, and most importantly taking care of the #1 Man in your life. Continue doing all those things like a pro but just remember your Man. Remember how he makes you smile. Remember how he makes you laugh. Remember how he makes you feel soooo good. Just remember and each day you'll do something special, something that will make him feel good, something that will let him know that you thought about him.

Now go and love on your Man!

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