The days are getting colder here in Georgia , the kind of weather that I’m not afraid off. As a matter of fact it’s one of my favorite times of year. I enjoy bundling up, feeling the cold wind hitting my face, getting cozy in front of the fireplace. It’s an excuse to get close. Someone once asked me how do I do it? How do I maintain the closeness that D. and I share? When do we find the time to you know, make mad passionate love (the kind where you’re left panting and wanting for more)? Umm, ok I’m back. My mind got away from me there. Now where was I? Oh yeah, the question. My answer: whenever, wherever, however, and with whatever. I know you’re probably scratching your head right now. The last part hit you with a left, right? Let me explain. We love to use toys, (well I do, that is), he loves to watch and use them on me. When I shared this with the person who asked me their response was one of shock and confusion. “What do you mean”, they said. I mean exactly what I said. Toys ar...